#7: My Girl (Gone, Gone, Gone) by Chilliwack

Peak Month: November 1981
22 weeks on Vancouver’s CKLG chart
Peak Position #1
2 weeks Top 20 Extras
Peak Position on Billboard Hot 100 ~ #22
YouTube.com: “My Girl”
Lyrics: “My Girl”

Bill Henderson was born in Vancouver in 1944. He learned guitar and became the guitarist for the Panarama Trio that performed at the Panarama Roof dance club on the 15th Floor of the Hotel Vancouver. He formed the psychedelic pop-rock Vancouver band, The Collectors, in 1966. The Vancouver rock band The Collectors, was formerly named The Classics who were a Vancouver group led by Howie Vickers in the mid-60s who often appeared on CFUN. The Classics were part of the regular line-up on Let’s Go, a show on CBC TV. Though the Classics released several singles the group needed room to grow and reformed as The Collectors. They would become one of the most innovative of Vancouver’s recording acts through the rest 60s. In the spring of 1966, Vickers was asked to put together a house band at the Torch Cabaret in Vancouver. Along with Claire Lawrence on horns, they recruited guitarist Terry Frewer, drummer Ross Turney and Brian Newcombe on bass. Within a couple of months, fellow Classics member Glenn Miller replaced Newcombe on bass and Bill Henderson, a student at UBC, replaced Frewer on guitars. With Vickers now handling vocals, their sound changed from doing covers of R&B tunes to psychedelic rock. This led them to gigs along the Canadian and US west coast. Their strongest fan base in America was in California.

The Collectors released over a half dozen local hits between 1967 and 1970 – including “Looking At A Baby“, “Fisherwoman”, “Lydia Purple”, and “I Must Have Been Blind“. Bill Henderson (vocals, guitar), Claire Lawrence (saxophone, keyboards), Ross Turney (drums) and Glenn Miller (bass) were all Collectors bandmates.

After Howie Vickers left The Collectors, they changed their name to Chilliwack. The name was a Salish First Nations name that means “going back up” and is the name of a city in the Fraser Valley in British Columbia.

On October 16, 1970, Chilliwack gave a concert in Vancouver at the Pacific Coliseum. This was followed by another concert on December 11, 1970, at the PNE Garden Auditorium. That winter a single titled “Rain-O” peaked at #15 on CKVN in Vancouver after briefly charting for four weeks in December.

Chilliwack appeared in concert in Vancouver on April 28, 1971, at the Pacific Coliseum, and later that year at the Agrodome on August 6, 1971. They had their first Top Ten hit in Vancouver with “Lonesome Mary” in 1971. On March 17, and later that year on July 24, 1974, Chilliwack appeared in concert at the Pacific Coliseum. They released other singles across the decade including “Crazy Talk” in 1975.  On November 10, 1975, Chilliwack gave a concert at the Commodore Ballroom.

After the disappointment of their album, Rockerbox, the band went back to the recording studio and released Dreams, Dreams, Dreams. The debut single from the album was “California Girl”, written by Bill Henderson.

At the time they released “California Girl”, Chilliwack’s band members were all Scientologists, according to Bill Henderson’s liner notes on a 2013 reissue of the album. And in 1977 there was a dedication to the founder of the Church of Scientology, Ron L. Hubbard, on the back of Dreams, Dreams, Dreams. By 1977 the bands musicians consisted of Henderson, Turney, Miller and Howard Froese on guitar, vocals, solina and piano. The album contained more successful singles after the release of “California Girl”. These were “Baby Blue“, “Something Better” and “Fly At Night”.

In June 1978, Chilliwack released the studio album titled Lights From the Valley. The debut single from the album was “Arms Of Mary”. At the end of 1978 the Chilliwack cracked the Top 20 in Vancouver with “Never Be The Same“. Chilliwack gave a concert at the Pacific Coliseum on December 27, 1978, and returned to perform again at the venue on May 23, 1981. In between these concerts, the band performed at the Queen Elizabeth Theatre on March 4, 1980.

Chilliwack continued to release albums and singles over the next few years. But it was their ninth album, Wanna Be A Star, that definitely made them stars. They charted their only two Top 40 hits on the Billboard Hot 100, starting with “My Girl (Gone, Gone, Gone)”.

Bill Henderson and Brian MacLeod co-wrote “My Girl (Gone, Gone, Gone)”. The song is about how much a guy misses his girlfriend since she left him. The dumped boyfriend narrates the lyrics and tells there was “a little misunderstanding.” As a result, she left and won’t pick up when he calls her on the phone. In fact, she went “away across the sea,” presumably to another continent across the ocean. We learn that he thinks “she didn’t have to leave me, she didn’t have to run, she didn’t have to go without a word to anyone.” What kind of a relationship dynamic would cause a girlfriend to leave and “to run?” What circumstances would cause her to leave all of a sudden “without a word to anyone?” We don’t know what the “little misunderstanding” is about. Is the dumped boyfriend minimizing the events that led to her sudden departure? Or was the girlfriend prone to a habit of flight, and not able to deal with the dysfunction in the relationship? Was she afraid of intimacy, or afraid of him? If it’s the latter, that may explain why she left without a word to anyone, and felt she had to “run.” The narrator sees her departure as “a tragedy.” After all, he contends “she meant the world to me.” If the girlfriend was just afraid of intimacy, and couldn’t see all the love she was receiving from her boyfriend, that is a tragedy.

Vocally and instrumentally, Chilliwack puts together a powerful result and obscure some of the darker lyrical possibilities with the harmonies. In any event, this was Chilliwack’s biggest hit and in Vancouver it stayed at number-one for three weeks on CFUN. On CKLG the song spent twelve weeks in the Top Ten and twenty weeks in the Top 20.

“My Girl (Gone, Gone, Gone)” peaked at #1 in Vancouver (BC), Halifax (NS), Ottawa (ON), Regina (SK), #2 in Toronto, and Winnipeg (MB), #3 in Kitchener (ON), and Baltimore, #4 in Hamilton (ON), Montreal, and Presque Isle (ME), #5 in Kansas City (MO), #6 in Providence (RI), #7 in Sydney (NS), Atlanta, and Cincinnati (OH), #8 in St. Cloud (MN), #9 in Davenport (IA), and #10 in London (ON).

On the April 23, 1982 episode of the sketch comedy TV series SCTV  during the skit “Pre-Teen World Telethon,” the fictional adolescent garage band The Recess Monkeys, performed a very amateurish cover of the song. The Recess Monkeys were Stephan Seely (John Candy) on drums and backing vocals; Paul Rey (Eugene Levy) on guitar, backing vocals, and tambourine and Steve Applebaum (Rick Moranis) on guitar and lead vocals.

A followup single by Chilliwack, “I Believe”, also made the Top 40 on the Billboard Hot 100. In 1982 Bill Henderson won the Juno Award for Producer of the Year for the Chilliwack album Opus X. The band’s third single release from Opus X was “Secret Information”. In the summer of 1982 Chilliwack had another Top 20 single from Wanna Be A Star in Vancouver titled “(Don’t Wanna) Live For A Living“.

By the time the Opus X album was recorded, Chilliwack was now a trio of Ab Bryant, Bill Henderson and Brian MacLeod. Henderson wrote “Secret Information” and has continued to play in concert. On October 6, 1991, Chilliwack gave a concert at the 86th Street Music Hall in Vancouver. Brian MacLeod died in 1992 of cancer.

In the 2000s Chilliwack was a frequent performer in the Greater Vancouver area. This included dates in Vancouver at the Commodore Ballroom on January 8, 2000, and again on January 11, 2003; The PNE Amphitheatre on August 30, 2008; and the PNE Exhibition Bowl on August 29, 2009. Chilliwack also appeared in the Vancouver suburb of Coquitlam at the Red Robinson Show Theatre on March 27, 2009; And in the suburb of Richmond on May 21st and 22nd, 2010, at the River Rock Casino. They also appeared in the 2000s in White Rock and Surrey.

On August 19, 2014, Chilliwack performed at the PNE Amphitheatre in Vancouver. On September 7, 2015, Chilliwack gave a concert in the Vancouver suburb of Burnaby at Swangard Stadium. And earlier in the year in the Fraser Valley town of Maple Ridge. In 2017 Chilliwack appeared in concert in the Vancouver suburb of Surrey, and in the Fraser Valley cities of Langley and Abbotsford.

On August 18, 2018, Chilliwack performed at the Rock Ambleside in West Vancouver. The set included vocals with Bill Henderson’s daughters Camille and Saffron. Chilliwack played at the Cosmo MusicFest & Expo in Richmond (BC) on June 1, 2019. Later that summer they appeared at the Rock The River Festival in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, the weekend of August 16-18, 2019. Other performers on stage included Blue Oyster Cult, Colin James, Loverboy, Quiet Riot, Streetheart, the Headpins, the Romantics and Honeymoon Suite.

July 7, 2023
Ray McGinnis

References:
Bill Henderson, The Collectors, Canadian Bands.com.
Chilliwack bio ~ thecanadianencyclopedia.ca.
Bill Henderson bio, gonegonegone.com.
Claire Lawrence bio, Rate Your Music.com.
Dylan S. Keating, Chilliwack, BeatRoute Magazine, November 3, 2013.
“Chilliwack concert dates – Canada,” setlist.fm.
“My Girl (Gone, Gone, Gone)“, Pre-Teen Telethon – the Recess Monkeys, SCTV, April 23, 1982
“CKLG Top 20,” CKLG 730 AM, Vancouver, BC November 18, 1981.

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